Let me set this up for you. I had to go to work today for about an hour and was already dressed. The kids were only at daycare for about 2 hrs and I thought it would be a lot of fun to go to the movies, for the FIRST time. It snowed here (slightly) and is super cold, so I thought it would be a wonderful experience to go somewhere warm and cozy for the afternoon.
I am pumped. Why as parents do we get so excited about doing stuff, and our kids could really care less? It could be my kids' ages (and I am sure it is) but I find myself WAY more excited than them on a lot of our outings. So here I am and am soooo excited about doing something for the first time. Jason was working and couldn't join us, and for once I had the courage to do it on my own.
I decide on the Princess and the Frog and head to the theatre. I know to get there close to when the movie starts so that my kids are not waiting for the movie to come on. I take them to the potty first so that there are not any pee-pee interruptions. My kids have not ever eaten popcorn (to my knowledge) so here is another first for them! I get us a small sprite and small popcorn.
We get our booster seats and find our perfect seat! Jonas LOVES eating the popcorn and Reese thinks it is so cool to have a big sprite to sip on! Remember, there are 3 big jackets taking up one seat of its own. I have Jonas on my left and Reese on my right. Booster seats are in place. Previews have started. Small crowd, but there are people in front of us and behind us.
Previews go by and the kids don't understand that you have to be quiet. I actually forgot that part when I thought this would be so fun. Jonas understands to be quiet, but Reese had a hard time remembering especially when she mimicks every word, sound, action on the screen.
Fifteen minutes in the movie, Reese states she has to go potty. I knew the kids had drank alot of sprite, but didn't think it would hit in 30 minutes. Dang! Gather Jonas and Reese, leave my belongings, and we head to the bathroom. Everyone does their thing. Back to theatre. Reese decides she doesn't like her seat. Removes the coats (aka throwing coats on floor) and sits 2 places down from me. The seat where our coats were is closest to the aisle. Then Reese discovers the stairs and decides to lay on them.
I put Reese back in her chair and she says, "NO". I pinch her mouth closed, whisper in her ear "mean nothings". She gets down, plays with our coats again, heads to the stairs, gets in her chair, gets down again. I get her lil body and place it in my lap. She hollars out. I grab face, whisper, and place her back in the chair. Jonas has realized that she is getting lots of attention and he wants to know what all is going on. Reese was too much of a distraction. He was actually watching the movie and enjoying the frogs singing and dancing.
Reese then says outloud, "I need to go poo-poo". Did we not just leave the bathroom? I decided at this point that my child is too much of a distraction for the others sitting around us. Also decided that my youngest is not emotionally ready to sit and watch a movie, in the dark, and that really doesn't interest her. Reese's fav movie right now is 101 Dalmations, and she kept thinking that was the movie we were going to see. We packed up our stuff and headed to the bathroom. This time with no intention of returning. I am sure the people around us were GLAD.
Reese didn't do #2. Of course she didn't. So after our 3rd bathroom break, we got in the car. I found myself really frustrated that I thought it would work out. I do think Jonas is ready and would have enjoyed the movie. Oh well. You live and learn!
Facts about our day:Movie tix: $14
Reese: got in free because she is 2yo (one of the only good things)
Popcorn and drink: $10
Bathroom breaks: 3
# of minutes that I thought this just might be okay: 10
Times Reese got out of her chair: seemed like 50 but it was probably 10
Getting excited about doing something else for my children: a
million times